People who avoid failure also avoid success

The paradox of Failure And Success! We unconsciously want to hide away from what hurts us, and failure definitely qualifies as something that hurts, so we all seek out comfort. We all have life and career goals. We work hard to achieve these goals. Avoiding failure prevents success. It actually delays success. If you never take a chance and fall down, you may be missing out on your biggest gift.

Failure And Success The Two Sides of Same Road

Now the question is why are we so afraid of failing?

The fear of failure is deeply embedded. It stems from various sources.

• The world demands perfection but hardly ever shows anything other side than the best; just look at Instagram. Social media shows victories but not the losses.

• Sometimes we just really don’t want to get hurt again after a bad experience at a past event.

• People want to do everything perfectly so they do not act for something new

• People becoming scared of people judging them for not achieving in life is certainly one reason which holds people back.

They do nothing but postpone things all thanks to this fear or stick to exactly what is known. The thought is, "If I do not try, I cannot fail." But the unvoiced truth is "If I do not try, I cannot succeed either."

Failing: The Unsung Hero of Success. 

Throughout history, failures have given us many great creators and inventors who changed the world. Thomas Edison said “I have not failed 10,000 times. I have successfully found 10,000 ways that will not work”. If you think about this statement, he reminds us to not consider failure as the end. Failure is actually feedback.

That's why failure is part of the formula for success.

1. The Ultimate Teacher.

Failure offers lessons that theory simply cannot. It shows us what doesn’t work, makes us think deeply, and shows us where a strategy/assumption falls apart. We can use errors that occur in the process to improve the work that we are doing. . It’s hands-on learning in its purest form.

2. Building Resilience and Grit.

Navigating setbacks builds mental toughness and resilience. When you get up after falling down then you will discover an inner strength you didn’t know you had. To succeed, you need grit as success is almost never a straight line.

3. Fostering Innovation.

Countless amazing things wouldn’t be here today if people had just stopped after their first try. There were countless other deaths in trying out strange things before discoverers seem to have just one single shot. Failure is inherent in any new innovation or technology.

4. Defining True Success.

If you achieve success without facing any challenges, it may seem pleasant. But it really doesn’t compare to coming through a struggle successfully. Going through failure makes success all the more meaningful and clear.

Stepping Beyond the Comfort Zone.

In order to achieve success, one first must be able to step outside of his/her comfort zone. This means.

• You might feel nervous or uncertain about taking action that could get you one step closer to reaching your goal.

• Learning that not every step has to be certain   Sometimes, exploration is key.

• Using a growth mindset means you will think that your abilities and your intelligence aren’t fixed traits. In other words, they can be developed through hard work. (Carol Dweck) People grow by exploring why they fail at something and not giving up.

Turning Setbacks into Stepping Stones.

Changes it from avoiding failure to embracing risk is life-changing. It's about reframing the narrative.

• I failed; instead, I just learned!

• It’s too hard (bigger challenge) to This challenges me to grow.

• What if I do something wrong? What to Expect When I Find Something Fantastic?

This mindset allows people to tackle problems with curiosity and tenacity, not fear.

Conclusion: Embrace the Journey.

The track to major achievement is not often plane. It's often paved with trials, errors, and moments of doubt. People who avoid failure also avoid success. This doesn’t mean you’re judging them. Instead, it is an invitation. Stop worrying that whatever you try will turn out wrong or fail, it’s a very good way to live life in whatever messy attempt, a fall, a learning, and a rise of the smile of your soul. Real success isn’t not failing; it’s being willing to keep going in spite of that.