RESPECT IS COMMANDED NOT DEMANDED

Respect is a polite behaviour prompted by spirit of regard for somebody or something. “Respect is a feeling of admiration for somebody/something because of their good qualities or achievements.” It is demonstrated in some ways mainly oral and physical. Beautiful words, befitting body language such as facial gestures and physical compliments are some means of paying somebody respect. You respect someone from the core of your heart because he/she deserves it, commands it and enjoys it duly. Respect is felt within, reflected through demeanor and behaviour and deeply rooted in one’s heart, mind and soul. Respect can’t be had from the market-place, nor can it be transferred on personal level, nor exchanged for money. Respect is an asset that you own as a reward for your good moral conduct, lofty manners and unblemished character. It is a wealth that you proudly own and enjoy, silently command and rightly receive. “Love begets love, respect begets respect”, is a well-said celebrated proverb. The respect you pay to  others, entitles you to get respect in return. A sincerely and affectionately practised good deed is likely and aptly to breed another good deed.
Same is true of true respect that springs from very depths of one’s heart. It works as a wonder on the mind and heart of its recipient, who, most likely, pays in the same coin next time, if not instantly. A person who respects others looks respectful, but, in fact, he/she makes himself/herself respectable in the eyes of people he/she comes across or deals with. Paying respects to others doesn’t cost anything except some care, love and humbleness for fellowmen, but it pays much in the shape of invaluable reward, contentment peace and sense of honour.



There are tens of thousands of people in the world who are from humble origins. They are unknown to most of their respective countrymen, the most powerful, wealthy and influential people. Obviously, they are men of straw, unworthy of respect and hollow dwelling in a wasteland. But to the people who have sense of self-respect and hold human and moral values high can judge their human dignity, respect and importance above everything else. Such humble people that possess good moral character are worthy of respect. They are known for the truth they profess and noble deeds they practise. They command respect in society and enjoy a sense of true respect and great enviable station of life. Heaps of riches can’t be equal to the worth of the respect they are paid selflessly, humbly and sincerely in their everyday life.

Real respect is foreign to them who don’t respect others. Since they lack sense of respect and value of sense of honour, they are devoid of such superb qualities as respectability, gentlemanliness and gentility. Such people that neglect and underrate others on the bases of colour, caste, creed and blood miss company and blessings of those great souls who dwell in the world of simplicity, austerity and moderation and enjoy peace, tranquility and contentment. Such great souls seldom pretend to be so called respectable  members of society. Rather, they make others respect them whole-heartedly and sincerely. They beget love in the hearts of their benefactors and command respect in true sense of the word. Such real respect can be discerned and valued by and ingrained in the  hearts of respectable souls to whom respect is an invaluable asset and imperishable personal possession.

How to make our presentations more effective

Few days before one of my friends asked me that "how can we overcome our lake of confidence", as that day he was called to deliver a presentation on the topic ?????? .So when he came to present his ideas,He said that "my legs started shivering and i forgot all of my ideas in an instant".


He was felling very nervous that day, so i told him to come with me to the cafe and i will help him to overcome his this problem. At cafe he told me his whole problem in detail, so i told him that the most important thing to deliver a wonderful persentation is to practise it several times before presentating it infront of audience , also their is an other factor which is Luck. But by combing all our efforts , our practise  along with our Luck we maximum reach at 95% of the whole prepration. So where are we lacking in those remaining 5% .

So the answer is that those 5% is in the hand of ALLAH PAK. Some times it happen that those 5% become heavier than the remaining 95%, so in that case we have to accept our destiny, but most of the time it happen that we get the reward of our efforts.

So i told him that not to nervous and remeber one thing that always begin your presentation with these glorious lines of "QURAN PAK" (Which are attached in the mail).The lines will help to increse your knowledge as well as your confedence level, as the result you will be able to share your infinite amount of priceless ideas and thoughts with others.    
 
Few days later .............!

I meat him today and asked him about his studies(specially about his presentation skills), he replayed very glady that his studies are going very well further more he said that his presentations skills are growing exponentially, i also observed a very big change in his communication style.

So this was all about that how to make our presentations more effective